Monday, February 9, 2009

Let's Go Blue!!!

When Hayden told Steve and I a few months ago that he was going to play b-ball, we were both pleasantly surprised. For those of you that know Hayden, sports is out of his comfort zone. He does not like competition!! He likes things to be done a certain way and he is not a fan of change. My husband and I try to encourage him to try new things and then make a decision whether or not he likes them. We don't want fear to stand in his way. For the first few days of practice, I was worried that he would hate it and change his mind, but he always came home with a smile on his face. He told me one day that Pastor Tom was his coach, but not today, today Mr. Jack was coaching. The day arrived for his first game and I asked him how he was feeling "fine, Mom," was his only reply. When he was put in the game for the first time, he made sure that the boy he was guarding never left his side (even on offense) and he stayed on the opposite side of the court that the ball was on. He finished the game and ran over to us and said, "I did a great job." We were so proud of him!! He was having fun with his friends and enjoying something new. What more could we ask for. Now jump ahead a few weeks into the season... Saturday's game was coached by Mr. Amos and Hayden was going to jump the ball at the start of the game. Steve and I were surprise, but good for him, he has to learn sometime. Kallie (7 year old sister and knower of all things) says, "what is he doing? He is going to mess up!" We both shot her "the look" and told her to cheer for her brother. He did great. His feet never left the floor, but he swung at the ball. We were in the stands cheering him on. He made a great catch and a great pass during the game, a little to his surprise, but what a game. The Wildcats won a close, hard fought battle. Let's go Blue!!! Hayden never ceases to amaze us. We are so proud of him for stepping out and trying something new. It was not easy for him, but he is brave and courageous. He is an encouragement to us to never let fear stop us from trying something new. Thank you son for who you are. We love every part of your unique and fun personality. We look forward to seeing what God has for your future. He has great things in store for you. We see it already. We love you. Dad and Mom

2 comments:

Becky @ Our Sweet Peas said...

GO HAYDEN!!! I am so excited for him.

Mariah said...

it was such a great game!!! Amos said "you would have thought Hayden just won the championship for the team when he caught and passed the ball the way everyone erupted!" He said it was so loud down on the court. We love Hayden and can't believe how big he is getting. I JUST saw a photo of him and Clay when they were like 2 and 3. It was one of our early Easter pics when it was just Clay, Hayden, and Grant...O the easy days of those photos:)

Just be prepared, if he makes a basket this year, I'm starting the wave!!!!